DBAY (Doing Business as Yourself) is a Planet Andrea breakout room for people who are into living their Human Design experiment who also want to explore possibilities for how to navigate that in a world that maybe isn't ready for you to be that.
I (Andrea) & whoever else steps through this portal are here to brainstorm that w/you & guide you on the tech bits.
Primary Goal: Success, Satisfaction, Peace &/or Delight
The chart of the person who said this is pictured below.
He said -
“Hope motivation people, how do you deal with projectors? They are really top professionals of making you feel guilty.”
The next person (a well HD established MG) said “I love them, but I keep them on a leash”
Further down, a (I believe) Manifestor said something like “I don’t know many and I keep it that way on purpose (don’t make invitations)”
And that is crashing into my head with some guiding I was doing yesterday with a fellow Projector who was being driven somewhat nuts by a visiting (uninvited) Projector - not HD aware of her design - and my own advice was … get unentangled as quick as you can!
Phew!
At the same time - in the mix is a whole lot of “geez was I ever like that”??
And “Lordy I sure hope I’m not now.”
And “holy crap, this is where generalizations hail from.”
And maybe even a small amount of “I really should step up my guidance game”
And “oof, is there even energy for that??”
No choice all around of course.
Literally no choice.
My comments on the original thread to this Generator are in screenshots after the chart.
And it’s so interesting to see where in his chart these pressures he may be feeling (and not owning) could hail from.
There’s pressures the other might feel from his Design that he’s failing to recognize as well.
Literally, his original post feels somewhat akin to how bigotry happens. 👀
Through generalization.
Human Design is so wild. 🍿
It’s literally the only thing I ever came upon where I agreed to be labeled into a group.
Ever.
PS there’s additional irony here - I have a Projector chart right? And am literally married to a 2/4 sacral Generator (this chart is also a 2/4 sacral Gen) - with Hope Motivation.
I do see where he’s coming from.
But Oy the Homogenous generalizations that can hail from our openness 🤦🏻♀️🙄
And these are the people who appear, claim to be in their experiments - sheesh 🙄
Okay, mini rant over.
We can return to our regular programming here shortly 😅
I dropped this into Planet Andrea Locals by mistake yesterday- it might be too weird for in here too - if I ever do an actual podcast for this,, might have to restart the numbers higher 😂
Anyway, here’s me waking up and talking mostly to myself yesterday morning 😜🙃
Maybe there’s a nugget or two 🤷🏻♀️ no promises though :)
AWA aka ‘Art With Andrea’, is one of the umbrella ideas I’m floating around with atm that cropped up as I’ve been going through the subscription box contemplation process. Even bought the domain.
This morning (as happens many mornings), I woke up with what felt like crystal clarity around how to possibly move forward with, I guess is, a Collective application (two of my channels are Collective - the conscious ones, number 3 is Tribal) of sharing the stuff that I do/ don’t do - today’s topic was art - and the way that I think about all that.
So that’s what this audio is about. The dots that connected in my head this morning in that ...
Thought this thread was fascinating - here’s the original comment thread:
https://www.facebook.com/share/18c28tZhA6/?mibextid=wwXIfr
While the email is just a waste of everyone’s time, the difference in approaches and having HD awareness now …
I’m reading the comments with that filter … undefined ego, defined ego (or healthy undefined ego), undefined solar plexus — are the top three that feel glaring to me.
Money is such an easy place to notice these things.
My guess is that the writer of the email is undefined ego and defined solar plexus… oh and also a projector 🤭
You have any takeaways?
Of course, I would do best to sleep on making any moves first if it were sent to me - because emotional Authority 🤓
This dude helped form part of my copywriting foundation both directly and through other people I learned from who learned from him -
“How can a letter riddled with typos make $24,000 from one Facebook post?
So one time Frank Kern posted to his Facebook that my Book of Secrets sales page (new at the time) was the best he'd read in a long, long time.
#truestory
Yet, it was riddled with typos. OMG his Facebook blew up with people denouncing the letter. Whilst it sold $24,000 from his post, best as I can recall.
My Amazing Formula sales letter had typos I didn't fix for 3 years. I don't have all the numbers. But taking into account the back end, I'd imagine it sold a million or close to it in that time period.
My rule of thumb is that if it's raining money, don't touch it. You screw more stuff up by "fixing it" than you do leaving it alone.
My wife informs me the same rule of thumb doesn't apply round the house!
I'm not advocating typos. I advocate speed over perfection.
So yesterday an old friend made a comment that my post couldn't have been made by a.i.
Because. of. ...
Hahahaha, I just spotted this question in an art group and thought it was so appropriate for understanding ‘value’ at a foundation level.
I run into so many people who would happily eat up my day and be ever so thankful once they’re done. 🙄
Shocker they often also don’t consider/value their own time and energy either.
Of course there’s other important value to consider beyond this trading time thing … :)
The original post is in the screenshot below 👇🏽
And here’s one commenter - sounds like a bitter projector 😂
I asked ChatGPT for some tactful responses, and then I asked, "Now make them snarky." The snarky responses are much more fun, so I thought I'd share them here. Lol!
"Wow, it’s such an honor to be chosen as your free labor! Sadly, my bills don’t have the same level of admiration for me, so I’ll need to charge my regular rates."
"Oh, sure! Let me just check if the gas station will fill my tank for free because we’re such good friends. Spoiler ...
