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Feeling my Channel of Talent meet my Markets Internal & a recognition of my Projector Dad šŸ„¹

So hereā€™s what happened.

Iā€™m dropping this into the Dbay (Doing a Business as Yourself) locals rather than Planet Andrea, because ultimately this is about recognizing how different business models can suit oneā€™s mechanics - in this case mine. Itā€™s the only movie I actually get to watch after all šŸ™ƒ

Iā€™m still discovering different things about my own Design and how it interfaces with the world with the least resistance - nearly 10 years on.

Lots of trial and error - LOTS.

And with a 3rd line profile, thatā€™s a forever thing.

Iteration is the only way forward.

That was one of my great takeaways from my mentor Mark Hoverson. Iteration de-escalates the concept of mistakes - in most cases anyway.

And ā€œOopsieā€ takes care of nearly all the rest.

But I digress šŸ¤“

On Sunday, I was sitting out in our backyard at a somewhat raggedy, but serviceable, table under an umbrella - attempting to chip away at the finishing up of the 6 Weeks with HD Beginners (which is essentially turning into 12 weeks btw lol šŸ˜‚šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø) ā€¦

I always loose steam on the deliverable when I attempt a big bite like this. Project creep is real and insidious - ā€˜just one more thingā€™ can turn what feels like a nice idea into agonizing plodding.

Weā€™re not there yet with that project, though Sunday was a bit of a wash. I recognized my inability to focus and sought help.

Thanks to @NaimRā€™s availability on Monday to effectively do a co-working session with me (I lean on her defined ego and Left mind from time to time - seems to get things done āœ”ļø). We smashed through a first draft and the skeleton of the content of 6 more modules. Hopefully that can be that. I just have to flesh it out now and wrap up the class with a couple of zooms. We shall see.

The other thing that happened on Sunday was - my dad, Abe, called to see if it would be a good afternoon to come visit.

It was.

The weather was beautiful, and thereā€™s more than one chair at that table. ā˜ŗļø

Dad lives about 4 miles away. We moved here (to Florida) because he was here and it was time to have the kids be near a grandparent (they were 1, 5 and 14 at the time). I also wanted the warm weather.

Near as I can tell without a firm birth time, heā€™s got a 5/1 Emo P with defined ego chart. Heā€™ll be 85 this September.

Now hereā€™s what bring me to this post.

My Channel of Talent and my Markets Internal environment.

What happened because of Dadā€™s visit had me daydreaming of a more public studio space with a little apartment at the back.

Something like what my tiny house studio is like now, only in a little touristy artsy town somewhere (there are a couple of possibilities not too far from here, but I think this is mostly a daydream - thanks Gate 41 and open head ā€¦ I donā€™t really want a commercial space in my life)

Back to my Channel of Talent though - itā€™s gist is ā€œmastery through practice supported across time by patronage of one kind or anotherā€

And my Dadā€™s way of being reminded me on Sunday how staunch of a patron heā€™s been for me - forever.

And still what happened was an Unexpected surprise šŸ˜®

He always asks about what Iā€™ve been up to - usually what he can wrap his brain around is the art.

Iā€™ve really been essentially what I would call ā€˜art dormantā€™ for a few months - as Iā€™ve mentioned other places, the holidays before and after the New Year can really derail my usual flow most years. This year seems to be especially so.

So I told him that.

But then I went on to say how much I really was still enjoying the cherry blossom ink painting Iā€™d done in mid January (Sakura 1) and possibly even more so the prints.

I told him that one has gone to live in Austria and that same image was made into a giant wall sticker. But that I still had one and Inwoukd go get it so he could see it in person (heā€™d only seen it on a FB post).

So I brought the giclee print Iā€™ve been enjoying myself and he said, ā€œOh! Iā€™d like one like thatā€.

Me: well you can have this one

Dad: great, how much is it?

Me: I tell him a higher price than the one I sent to Austria, because itā€™s a larger size.

Dad: okay, Iā€™m gonna have to check my finances and letā€™s see (emotional and ego definition remember?)

Dad: better put it away so it doesnā€™t get dirty (lol with that, Iā€™m already clear heā€™s a yes, itā€™s how I know he operates)

Heā€™s also always been one to support my ā€˜next craft thingā€™ - even though he has never really understood how it might translate into being able to live.

So I put it away. I really love it and I think Iā€™ll get myself a bigger one next.

Monday comes, Naim and I get together on Zoom to put a dent in the structure of the content area for that course or whatever it oughta be called.

In the middle of that - Dad calls, ā€œIā€™m going to come buy that print. Do you want cash or Zelle (bank transfer)?ā€

Surprise!

I say whatever is easier - but cash is always lovely šŸ˜Š

He says ā€œokay Iā€™m going to the gym and will (defined ego - oh and Left Mind I believe) stop at an atm and come by afterā€

Alrighty.

Naim and I continue. And just as weā€™re about ready to wrap it up, here comes Dad. Cash in hand. Ready for his thing.

Which is the part that had me pining a little this morning.

Because that was so lovely ā˜ŗļø

To have people be able to come into my studio and buy this and that - could be so so lovely.

Markets Internal, quite literally.

But probably not here, or at least not to the general public.

However, it also reignited in me clarity around selling prints.

I said as much to John after Dad had gone, ā€œomg I love selling printsā€šŸ˜„

Yesterday (Monday), I sold 2 classes and a print - without any particular extra effort. And both without pre-anticipation of mine.

But I did have to be ā€œdoing meā€ in the world for that to be possible.

Painting when Iā€™ve felt like painting (commissions are distinctly not for me), and creating class/workshop/content portals when the mood strikes.

Thatā€™s been my M.O. for quite awhile.

The offers/things for sale have to exist, or atleast be loosely conceptualized in order for people to want to give you money.

This exchange with Dad ā€¦ it has me revisiting the possibilities for a subscription model (which Locals made me a convert of), for prints ā€¦ Iā€™ve had blips of clarity since bumping into Sarah from Launch Your Box via a FB ad ā€¦. But then theyā€™ve slipped away again.

What I recognized this morning ā€¦ is that maybe itā€™s really about patronage (Channel of Talent) and people who find value, get personal juice in the story of that.

Overdeliver in physical value too, of course, so itā€™s a no brainer.

But less commodity, more story - itā€™s generally the way to go for solo entrepreneurs in particular.

Itā€™s how we differentiate ourselves.

People buy from people.

Still honing in on what my story is exactly, which business models suit me - refinement made possible today, thanks to Human Design.

Phew Iā€™ve been writing this for about an hour. Dad called in the middle too.

And now John is inviting me out to go look for a sink for his newest doing project ā€¦ heā€™s building himself a canning kitchen in his shipping container.

Hereā€™s a picture (well, itā€™s actually a picture of Chachi, but that first 10 feet or so of this end of the container is getting transformed into a kitchen šŸ™ƒšŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø

Better go get out of my pjs so I can roll with the Generator šŸ„°

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AWA Podcast 0001? - early morning thoughts on gathering and organizing content as I go

I dropped this into Planet Andrea Locals by mistake yesterday- it might be too weird for in here too - if I ever do an actual podcast for this,, might have to restart the numbers higher šŸ˜‚

Anyway, hereā€™s me waking up and talking mostly to myself yesterday morning šŸ˜œšŸ™ƒ

Maybe thereā€™s a nugget or two šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø no promises though :)


AWA aka ā€˜Art With Andreaā€™, is one of the umbrella ideas Iā€™m floating around with atm that cropped up as Iā€™ve been going through the subscription box contemplation process. Even bought the domain.

This morning (as happens many mornings), I woke up with what felt like crystal clarity around how to possibly move forward with, I guess is, a Collective application (two of my channels are Collective - the conscious ones, number 3 is Tribal) of sharing the stuff that I do/ donā€™t do - todayā€™s topic was art - and the way that I think about all that.

So thatā€™s what this audio is about. The dots that connected in my head this morning in that ...

AWA Podcast #0001? - early morning thoughts on gathering and organizing content as I go
People are weird

Thought this thread was fascinating - hereā€™s the original comment thread:

https://www.facebook.com/share/18c28tZhA6/?mibextid=wwXIfr

While the email is just a waste of everyoneā€™s time, the difference in approaches and having HD awareness now ā€¦

Iā€™m reading the comments with that filter ā€¦ undefined ego, defined ego (or healthy undefined ego), undefined solar plexus ā€” are the top three that feel glaring to me.

Money is such an easy place to notice these things.

My guess is that the writer of the email is undefined ego and defined solar plexusā€¦ oh and also a projector šŸ¤­

You have any takeaways?

Of course, I would do best to sleep on making any moves first if it were sent to me - because emotional Authority šŸ¤“

A note from Marlon Sanders OG

This dude helped form part of my copywriting foundation both directly and through other people I learned from who learned from him -

ā€œHow can a letter riddled with typos make $24,000 from one Facebook post?

So one time Frank Kern posted to his Facebook that my Book of Secrets sales page (new at the time) was the best he'd read in a long, long time.

#truestory

Yet, it was riddled with typos. OMG his Facebook blew up with people denouncing the letter. Whilst it sold $24,000 from his post, best as I can recall.

My Amazing Formula sales letter had typos I didn't fix for 3 years. I don't have all the numbers. But taking into account the back end, I'd imagine it sold a million or close to it in that time period.

My rule of thumb is that if it's raining money, don't touch it. You screw more stuff up by "fixing it" than you do leaving it alone.

My wife informs me the same rule of thumb doesn't apply round the house!

I'm not advocating typos. I advocate speed over perfection.

So yesterday an old friend made a comment that my post couldn't have been made by a.i.

Because. of. ...

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ChatGPT gets snarky

Hahahaha, I just spotted this question in an art group and thought it was so appropriate for understanding ā€˜valueā€™ at a foundation level.

I run into so many people who would happily eat up my day and be ever so thankful once theyā€™re done. šŸ™„

Shocker they often also donā€™t consider/value their own time and energy either.

Of course thereā€™s other important value to consider beyond this trading time thing ā€¦ :)

The original post is in the screenshot below šŸ‘‡šŸ½

And hereā€™s one commenter - sounds like a bitter projector šŸ˜‚


I asked ChatGPT for some tactful responses, and then I asked, "Now make them snarky." The snarky responses are much more fun, so I thought I'd share them here. Lol!

"Wow, itā€™s such an honor to be chosen as your free labor! Sadly, my bills donā€™t have the same level of admiration for me, so Iā€™ll need to charge my regular rates."

"Oh, sure! Let me just check if the gas station will fill my tank for free because weā€™re such good friends. Spoiler ...

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